On Evil — Post 8: The Purse

“It is not things themselves that disturb us, but our judgments about them.” — Epictetus

Start Here If You’re Lost

Begin with Back Roads — Built, Not Born

Back Roads — Built, Not Born

The Routine That Held Me Together

The Routine That Held Me Together

Back Roads — Built, Not Born | Post 1 In the summer of 2024, I started experimenting. Journaling, meditation, daily readings — just a few of the things that actually stuck. My mornings began with walks, cold showers, drawing sessions, and pre-caffeine workouts. I had no idea at the time how much I was going

The Deeper Why

The Deeper Why

Back Roads — Built, Not Born | Post 2 This post is part of the Back Roads — Built, Not Born series. Start with The Routine That Held Me Together. I started writing this post about New Year’s resolutions… In January. Then I stopped. Then I stopped doing a lot of things — this blog

The 90-Second Rule

The 90-Second Rule

For someone who craves autonomy, I never realized how trapped I was by my own reactions. A simple 90 seconds of biology can change the course of my entire day. Breaking patterns of anger is a journey I didn’t know I needed.

Reimagining Time

Reimagining Our Relationship with Time Part 1

Reimagining Our Relationship with Time Part 1

Author’s Note (April 2026): You can’t manage what you don’t measure. Periodic reviews show me what’s working, what isn’t—and the changes you can only see in hindsight. I’m a painfully slow writer—drafting takes forever, notes take forever—and this one took a month of tinkering plus an entire weekend of writing. But I was showing up.

On Evil

On Evil — Post 1:  No One Does Evil Willingly

On Evil — Post 1: No One Does Evil Willingly

“Nothing that goes on in anyone else’s mind can harm you. Nor can the shifts and changes in the world around you. Then where is harm to be found? In your capacity to see it.” — Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 4:39 The Claim I don’t personally believe that people do “evil” in general—much less willingly. I

On Evil — Post 2: Nature Doesn’t Apologize

On Evil — Post 2: Nature Doesn’t Apologize

“Nature is pliable, obedient. And the logos that governs it has no reason to do evil. It knows no evil, does none, and causes harm to nothing. It dictates all beginnings and all endings.” — Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 6:1 The Scene I want to start with a nature analogy that will help me keep my

On Evil — Post 3: Black Swans and Hindsight Bias — When Rarity Fades

On Evil — Post 3: Black Swans and Hindsight Bias — When Rarity Fades

“Any assessment we make is subject to alteration—just as we are ourselves.” —Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 5:10 Events That Stop Time How do we make sense of rare, extreme events that we’ve interpreted as evil? I mean the events that stop time. The ones that make the news anchors go quiet for a moment as they

On Evil — Post 4: The Job Description of “Evil”.

On Evil — Post 4: The Job Description of “Evil”.

“When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly. They are like this because they can’t tell good from evil, and they have recognized the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own – not of the same blood or

On Evil — Post 5: The Corruption of Good

On Evil — Post 5: The Corruption of Good

“No one can rob you of your faculty of volition.” — Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 11.36 (quoting Epictetus) Volition Every situation presents us with an opportunity. You may not always get to choose the event but you do get to choose your reaction to it. The consequences feel more severe when we feel like we have

On Evil — Post 6: The Late Fee

On Evil — Post 6: The Late Fee

“… cruelties are practised in accordance with acts of senate and popular assembly, and the public is bidden to do that which is forbidden to the individual. Deeds that would be punished by loss of life when committed in secret, are praised by us because uniformed generals have carried them out.” — Seneca, Letter XCV

On Evil — Post 7: The Man Who Knew

On Evil — Post 7: The Man Who Knew

“Philosophy teaches us to act, not to speak. Its demands are these: each person should live to the standard he himself has set; his manner of living should not be at odds either with itself or its way of speaking.” — Seneca, Epistulae Morales, Letter 20 (Graver and Long, p. 73) When my son was

On Evil — Post 8: The Purse

On Evil — Post 8: The Purse

“It is not things themselves that disturb us, but our judgments about them.” — Epictetus

R Words

The Scenic Route

Reason’s Humble Beginning

Reason’s Humble Beginning

Scenic Route — Post 1 “Reason is the slave of the passions.”— David Hume I was studying David Hume for my On Evil series, and the reflex to look up etymology kicked in. Where does reason come from? After looking it up and pondering it in the shower, the irony of the word’s journey —

The Long Way Around

The Long Way Around

Scenic Route — Post 2 “Thou hast formed us for Thyself, and our hearts are restless till they find rest in Thee.” —Augustine, Confessions I.1 (trans. Pusey)

I Remain Steady